Vulva People. in The Napkin.
- Aug. 5, 2024, 2:48 a.m.
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Ya know. When I would write elaborate crap referring to women as vulva endowed beasts or some nonsense, it was a joke. It was silly.
And if you said, Timmy, I’m not just a pussy, I would agree completely. Women are, in fact, more than what’s between their legs.
Which is how this goddamned language style has gotten out of hand.
If you’re talking about penises and specifically people with penises, and you’re doing the OCD inclusive crap, I get it. You’re using specific language.
But also?
Akin to women not enjoying being called girls.
It’s kind of very slightly mildly insulting to be reduced to a Penis Person.
Do boys exclusively have have penises? Nope.
But also?
Boys have penises.
I didn’t say all.
Girls wear pants.
I didn’t say all.
Some of this virtue signalling, at times, strikes of severe overcompensation.
Guys. You’re more than a dick. You’re a person.
Timmy™ ⋅ August 05, 2024
Yup, that was the takeaway from this SPH video I put on as background noise. They hit the key points, including aftercare. All stuff I know.
That you probably don't.
https://youtu.be/CQO0MG1_bks
Sleepy-Eyed John ⋅ August 05, 2024
Hmmmm
bookwyrm ⋅ August 05, 2024
i mean i'm cis so i feel like my opinion isn't as important when it comes to this particular thing, but if it makes trans people feel more included, then i think it's a pretty small thing i can do to make that happen.
Timmy™ bookwyrm ⋅ August 06, 2024
Yeah, that's my feeling, too. I ask myself shite, are you sounding like olde people when you were little, just peeved because things are different? I don't want to erase people's existence.
And thus writing this here, and not in a more public space (like YouTube).
Language evolves. It's a balance of accepting things change, and not being too much of an ass about what I hold onto.
bookwyrm ⋅ August 05, 2024
i kind of know what you mean though, using phrases like that feels a bit off. i tend to just say something like "to whomever it applies to" instead of "penis/vagina havers"