Dicks in Pussies. in The Napkin.
- Feb. 16, 2014, 9:25 p.m.
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I don't understand the female compulsion for sex. Or, rather, the female need for dick to be sexually satisfied. Over the years, I've heard a number of females state, "Oh, I don't masturbate. If I get horny, I just get laid."
I don't get it. Some part of me feels it's "wrong" to just use a girl as a cumdumpster. Moreover, I've never heard a guy say, "I don't masturbate, I'll just stick my dick in a girl." Don't doubt there are guys stupid enough to say it. But proximity bias, I've never heard a guy say it.
Or perhaps. Dude, I get that dick feels nice in pussy, and vice versa. But I masturbate even though pussy would feel nice. Why is there sometimes this "Oh, I don't NEED to masturbate" attitude among some girls? Again, not all, just something I've heard over the years.
Just talking out loud. For me, sex is far more emotional, and far more about the actual process, than actually getting off. As a guy, (my) orgasm means the end of coitus. Boo! I like coitus!
Loki ⋅ February 17, 2014
Timmy™ Loki ⋅ February 17, 2014
Slut > masturbation.
Fascinating how that works. Not that I'm against slutting in the first place.
ManitouWolf ⋅ February 17, 2014
Like Loki said, I don't trust those that claim not to masturbate. I do all the time. I mean, sure, sex is almost always better than self-lovin', but sometimes I just don't want to go through all the trouble of having to make sure the other person gets off (because I'm considerate like that), so I'd rather just handle things myself and go on about my business. * shrugs *
Timmy™ ManitouWolf ⋅ February 17, 2014
Yes! I have a decent tongue, but I actually care whether a girl enjoys herself and stuff. It's nice if coitus itself is enjoyable for her.
ManitouWolf Timmy™ ⋅ February 17, 2014
My husband is the same way, always making sure I get at least one orgasm (if not 10 -- I'm easy to get off) before he gets his. Makes for a great lover. :)
Leslie Bruce ⋅ February 17, 2014
That.... Is a bizarre statement. I've never heard anyone say they don't masturbate.
AnOrangeZebra ⋅ February 17, 2014
Absolutely. It is an alarming trend I keep hearing about from women or husbands "my wife doesn't masturbate" and I'm all like huh???? How does she know how to teach anyone how to satisfy if she doesn't do it herself? When I first started masturbating I didn't have any sexual desire for actual penetration. I developed that later because that indeed feels good as well. But I feel like society today praises the opposite instead. And if you then can't get off with a partner (like me) that causes me a lot more insecurity than it should not to mention me worrying about my partner's feelings... Because peoples egos are validated by being able to please someone else I suppose.
Timmy™ AnOrangeZebra ⋅ February 18, 2014
When I learned to masturbate, I didn't associate it with "sex" at all, either. It was just something that felt nice. So in terms of my own "needs", I still feel like I take care of them. Sex is far more for intimacy and, well. Never orgasms. Just. Cuz it feels nice. : )
One Angry Dwarf ⋅ February 22, 2014
Dude, I meant to comment on this when I first read it--I've never heard anyone say, I don't masturbate, I just fuck someone every time I'm horny?
In the time it takes to find someone to fuck--which granted, is not very long for most femalekind, but still like, a couple hours or something--I couldn't have had a zillion orgasms. A ZILLION. And if it's just about physical pleasure, then what's the difference?
Dunno man, I've never heard anyone claim they don't masturbate either, so I'm dumbstruck here.
One Angry Dwarf ⋅ February 22, 2014
*could have had
Ampris ⋅ February 24, 2014
Sometimes I really would rather have a vibrator than a random guy who I'm not sure actually knows how to get a woman off. But then again I don't do random sex. I do have some guys that I could reliably booty call in the past though.
Babyslime ⋅ February 26, 2014
Part of this is because almost no amount of vagina-owner masturbation can come anywhere close to the feel of penis insertion. Your hands, fingers, whatever just can't compare. But a penis owner? Well... he can simulate a vaginal effect to some extent. You can even get half-way there with some fancy hand work. That shit is just not possible with a vagina.
Timmy™ Babyslime ⋅ February 26, 2014
Yet to orgasm, one's gotta hit the clit.
Or is it that there's a different satisfaction that comes from deep dicking, even if you never orgasm.