Mrs. Day 3 in Thirty-Four

So most of you on FB already know this, but Randy and I got married on Monday.

We ended up going through with the plan of getting married on our anniversary (7 years on the 11th) because we had already cancelled the original family wedding we were going to do after Randy was unable to keep working after January.

It was a very cute little ceremony and the weather was great. Randy threw it all together. He asked his brother, who is an ordained minister (one of those online things) to marry us, his best friend Jacquie was his ‘Best Woman’ and my best friend A.D. was my ‘Man of Honor’. Jacquie’s husband Garrett was here because she brought him with her but otherwise NO ONE ELSE KNEW.

I fucking got married!!! So it’s Mrs. P to you all now. Haha but seriously we went to Dave & Buster’s Sunday night and A.D. drove in from NM and met us there. Jacquie met us there after she got out of work. So we just hung out and played games, drank some beer, had some fun.

Monday we got up and went to the liquor store. Got a few things and then came home, got ready. We did the ceremony around 4pm as the sun was setting, in our back yard with Dice, Poker and Eevie running around. It was adorable and Adam gave a very nice couple of readings and did amazing on the vows.

For dinner we had Cuban sandwiches that Randy and I made ourselves. Then we sat around, drank and played cards against humanity for the rest of the evening. It was just a relax and chill day.

But the shit has already hit the fan with his side of the family. They feel like they were excluded from everything. Only the 6 people here were included so I can’t wrap my head around anything. Of course, I also can’t say anything because it’ll just set so much other shit off that I don’t want to have to deal with that nor do I want Randy to have to deal with all that fucking bullshit from his family.

His mom was a BITCH to him when he called her. She said “what?” when she answered her phone. Not hello. What.

Then she proceeded to try to make him feel guilty about not being invited and he told her to fuck straight off because no one was invited. No one knew. At all.

So yeah. He’s just like wtf have I done. And Adam was like you guys shouldn’t make it public until....

No sorry I’m not going to hide one of the Happiest Days of my life because certain people think they have to be involved in every aspect of their children’s lives. She never once said congratulations or anything positive. She just completely shit on him and made him feel like a 2 year old.

We have both told each other several times that the only thing that matters about this whole thing, our lives, our relationship, is that we are in it together and our decisions are our own.

We were going to go to Taos for Thanksgiving again but I know we can’t afford it and my dad can’t either. Plus we have all been fighting a cold and cough on and off for a couple months. We are all tired. So we are just going to go to NM, to my Dad’s. Save money on having someone watch the dogs and gas and all that good stuff.

Anywho. Here’s the group pic, just since everyone but Garrett is in the shot, I’ll tell you who we are. Lol.

L-R: A.D., Me, Adam, Randy and Jacquie.

Enjoy. Send some positive vibes that they realize this isn’t about what they wanted, but what WE wanted. And that if they can’t accept that, then they’ll just have to not be a part of our lives.