Quite the day in General musings

Had some fascinating conversations with F, and he urged me to stay on the phone with him as hub got home, which enraged hub, even though I was just saying goodbye. So he went into a fucking snit, making dinner real fun - the rest of the night I just ignored him, watching tv and doing crosswords. Then my phone buzzed with a text and he ran for my phone, which caused me to yell, 'don't touch my fucking phone!' and we wrestled over it. I shut it and put it in my purse. He shouted why didnt I go live with my lover. I said I haven't been asked. He said why don't you go, you know you don't want to be here with me. I didn't deny it. It all really started with what I was talking to F about this afternoon. He couldn't believe that hub and I had basically never had a sex life - hub had no interest. F was basically infuriated to hear about how hub had made me feel through the years. "But you're practically a nympho, how could he have married you?" I protested the "nympho", but he said, "in a good way.." He went on and on, "what a fucking waste...you're a beautiful woman and fucking sexy as hell, and he treated you that way?"

So I am "hiding" in the basement until hub falls asleep - had my good night text with F - he was sorry that I'd had a bad evening.