Ready Set Go in Book Six: Trying to Hold On 2019

Speed writing? Because this is going to be quick.

This week promises to be busy, next week promises to be a fucking nightmare so we’ll see how much my writing and reading keep up or don’t.

I am only here NOW because as I was cleaning up the house, tidying and wistfully imagining when I can have guests show up (considering most of my friends are lawyers, and most lawyers do TAX work, things are busy until Mid April)..... I passed the “Queen Guest Room”.... blah… hate that name.
ROOMS IN OUR HOUSE:
Sewing Room: No Bed
Main Bedroom: Wife & I’s room
Office: Twin Bed
Living Room; no bed but couch that can sleep 1
Kitchen/Dinning Room: Obviously, no bed
Storage Room Basement: No bed
Storage Room Basement Large: No bed.
Guest Room(??): Queen Sized Bed and Chaise Lounge that could sleep 1 child.... should I just call it the Guest Room?!?!?!?
The Cave: Sectional that could comfortably sleep 3

Okay… so… I was passing the Guest Room and my thoughts turned to MBFITWW. I love that man. He’s like a brother that doesn’t piss me off. And he isn’t asexual… just discerning and cautious… which is why I’ve NEVER heard about him and a date. Like… he’s gone on one or two dates before.... TOTAL… but I’ve never heard him have a girlfriend.... even in stories of growing up. And he KNOWS if he was asexual or gay, he could confide in me. SERIOUSLY.

But he’s an Over 30 year old Virgin that hasn’t dated much and DOES NOT WANT TO DATE A WOMAN WITH KIDS… plus he’s a Named Senior Partner in a Law Firm but he works in a community with a population under 7,000.
He’s tall but super thin… not remarkably handsome but a good guy… obsessed with anime and video games and comic books… but also REALLY good with his nieces and loves his family.

I know my own love life isn’t ideal. My marriage is rocky, my sex life ridiculously unfulfilling. I get it. But I also know how these things work. If My ABSOLUTE Best Friend In The Whole World hasn’t been on more than 10 dates by the time he is 35? He’s… kind of doomed. I’m worried about him from an “I know he wants to be ‘out there’ and I know, because he’s told me, that he gets lonely.... but I’m not in a great position to help” perspective.

Any ideas, tips, suggestions?

How can I help my friend enter the Dating World?