Free mobile home, broke ankle, divorce?,dads messages from grave in Misadventures of West Virginia Woman

The guy who gave me the mobile home is named Jessie. I am moving it moms. Jessie has been trying to be allowed to move his new $100,000 mobile home for the past 5 years. He has the rules and regulations memorized after his many attempts. I bet he could write a book about all the things he has learned. The guy is anxious and desperate to get rid of his old mobile home. The mobile home he is giving me he steam cleaned because all his anxious energy has been making him maniacally cleaning.

Jessie came by yesterday told us location on property he thought the mobile home could be placed. Tomorrow we are all going to fill out the paperwork go through the steps to move it onto moms land our other options either cost to much or fell apart which wasnt a big deal. The mobile home i am getting from him needs repairs to the floors and walls it shouldnt be a problem. All the steps required to move a mobile home is difficult and confusing i can understand why people would rather pay rent in a mobile home court.

I am still off work till my ankle has a ct scan. My ct scan is on the 16th. The doctor tells me if i can return to work on the 17th. I have a sprang and they think a possible hair line fracture where i fell at work. I can walk a while with air cast but often prop up my feet to reduce swelling. One of these days i will get off comp and go back to work until then i got to take my pain medicines and do what i can to move the free mobile home to moms.

My husband stays at home to play video games while me and mom jumps through the hoops to move this mobile home. He has no idea everything we are going though. My mom and i never invited him to make these decisions because he gets irritated easily. He is not a patient man. It is easier for us to do it ourselves than have to explain to him everything.

He hasnt even seen the free mobile home yet. He said he is happy at trailor park where we currently are. I told him if he wants to stay fine he pays the rent but me and my cats once our free mobile home is fixed we will move in with or without him. I will not force him to do anything he doesnt want to do. If he doesnt want to help us prepare fine. I am to strong a woman to wait to ask for permission! He threatened to divorce me he is unhappy i still cry over my dad who died in December. I told him if he wanted a divorce go for it. I am not afaid to live with or without him i am to damn old to beg.

After the mobile home is moved utilities needed to be added. I plan to use dads tools and supplies to remodel this mobile home. I have no idea what color paints he left behind when he died but i know i intend to repaint.

Mom is still crying about dad which is expected. She is overwhelmed and crying randomly. Today is 1 month since he died. She just recently started bathing herself without request from others and cleaning up her house again. I miss dad i often cried by myself but i got to keep going! I often have to remind her to eat and care for herself.

I often dream about dad. Mom is jealous because so far she has not. He told me to get up he will help me fix my house. Come on i am burning daylight! I opened my eyes hoping to see him again to discover his dog Bear telling me good morning. I still dream him in garage repairing vehicles doing various projects.. God i wish i had his knowledge for repairs. I really could use it right now.. :( God i miss him.