Absolutely mind blowing conversation in General musings

He finally called, "Hey Needy Girl" which led into this incredible conversation, about why I can never get the upper hand...why I've never been able to make him "crawl" as he put it....because he said I should be able to, but I can't seem to...And I said that's the number one question in my life.... And he teased during the conversation, "there, you just lost it again..." Talked about his ex fiance asking him why he was calling me back in May on my birthday, asking him why he wanted to bring all that up again, why couldn't he let it go. I was surprised, 'so she knew about me?' I tried to talk to him about seeing him, but he talked about needing to "build the friendship back up", about how he didn't want it be be meeting and getting naked. "Not that if you weren't here right now I wouldn't have you naked already, because I totally WOULD...but I don't want it to degenerate back to just that." I said, 'we were never just about that' We were on the phone over an hour I guess and hub came home during it and now of course is upset and pissed.