NoJoMo #19 in Surveys

11/19 - My favorite memory about my mother is…

Probably her holding me above the water in the surf when I was a child. It didn’t matter that she was getting battered by waves herself. Call it motherly instinct, but she seemed to always know how to be the best mum ever.
I think I threw a major spanner in the works when I came out at 19, but she seems to have even matured a lot over the years with that, I think. At least standing up to my dad about it anyway.
Also, her saying “I’d always choose my child over the church” was pretty huge of her to say at the time.

19) What are five (5) fears you have?

1. Commitment. Don’t ask me why. Fucking terrifying lol.
2. Snakes, spiders, deadly animals in general. And there’s a lot in my country lol.
3. Heights, but only if I know I’m not safe/secured
4. Never understanding the purpose of life.
5. Adulting, or more accurately - being good at adulting. I want to be a kid again.