Holi-daze in Thirty-Three

I can’t even today. Those of you on FB already saw this, but…

It is a requirement that at least one family member cause drama, so if no one has yet, YOU’RE UP

So let me rewind a little bit....

Randy had text everyone a couple weeks ago saying he was going to be working on thanksgiving. It’s his regularly scheduled day to work. The other office in Kansas City i think is off thanksgiving but they will be working Christmas and so Randy will be off.

Moving right along. She text back how she didn’t understand because he works at a bank and all banks are closed on thanksgiving. .

A) He doesn’t work at a bank.
B) It’s a call center, major holidays are not required to be closed.
C) We need the money

So she bitches and moans about that for a few.

Randy hurts his wrist and she starts hoping and praying something is wrong with it so he can be out of work until after thanksgiving.

Today he got the results of his MRI which were normal. He just has to wear a brace for a little while. Thinking maybe a bursa sac may have burst. There’s a lot of fluid around the joint and stuff so who knows. Nothing significant though, no tears, etc. Just lots of pain and the swelling.

Anywho so he texts his mom saying that everything was normal and that He is going back to work tomorrow. She asks him if he’s still going to work thanksgiving and he said of course since its his day to work.

She FLIPPED her shit. Started saying hiw her heart was broken because he won’t be there. Come to find our Adam has to work too. So she was having a meltdown. She wouldn’t even answer her phone. Randy is like sorry but I cant afford to be put of work for another 2 weeks.

So she starts telling him that she’s not even going to go to his dad’s since no one will be there. Randy tells her that my dad and I will be there. But she tells him that she “doesn’t feel close” to either of us and she would feel like an outsider.

All of a sudden she doesn’t feel comfortable around me. So Randy is like well unless you’re going to pay for my house and car I have to go back to work. She is just losing it over this. It was ridiculous!

For a while now Randy has wanted to get her seen regarding possible dementia or Alzheimer’s. She’s gotten to the point where her bigotry, forgetfulness and lots of other stuff has gotten really bad.

Well he talked to his sister and she feels the same way. He talked to one of her best friend and she feels the same way. He was thinking about getting everyone together to talk to her about getting seen for it and maybe get on some medicine.

He was waiting to talk to Adam because apparently she also called Connie (step-mom) and told her she should call Adams manager and ask him not to schedule Adam so he could spend thanksgiving with his family. What the fuck??

But I told Randy that Adam wouldn’t want to have anything to do with that. He talked to him and Adam doesn’t think its a good idea to do it that way because she will feel ganged up on etc.

But the thing that really bothered Randy was this. He told Adam that if she does have it, then she’s going to start forgetting stuff and he said he doesn’t want to go over to his moms house and she doesn’t even know who he is.

Adam fucking told him: “I’d rather ve forgotten than hated.”

Who fucking says that? I mean really. That just says “I don’t want to deal with this and i don’t care”. OMG.

I told Randy it was going to be something like that. Ugh I can’t even say I’m surprised. With everything. It is just one big clusterfuck honestly.

I’m so upset that she has tried to guilt trip him and just made everything so complicated. I even told Randy that we would go pick her up and take her with us but now I couldn’t give two shits. Ugh.

Anyway that was today. Hope your days were better.