Why are men so _________? in Torridaussity Two

I didn't have an apt word to use there for the description. I often write about my dating life or lack there of and this is just a rant on why I can find a billion men who want to have sex with me, but not one who wants to date me. I have the worst luck with men and falling for the ones who aren't emotionally available. I then get stuck in the friend zone where they tell me they love me, but just not in that way, yet they can't stay away from me and keep coming back and the cycle continues. I have been trying to break the cycle and doing ok most of the time. I am just tired of dealing with men who are just looking to get laid. I deserve better than that. I have always had issues loving myself, but step by step I am doing just that and that helps with not accepting less than I deserve. Is it so much to ask for a date that doesn't have to bring up sex within the first 30 minutes? Here's hoping there is someone out there for me. End rant.