Weight loss insecurity, pressured to get pregnant in Misadventures of West Virginia Woman

My fiance Talan feels insecure with my exercising says if I tone up men will notice and that I will leave him. He said he rather me be heavier so men won’t flirt with me. His theory is ridiculous. I get flirted with now I just ignore them because I am in a committed relationship.

I am 31 years old. He is afraid if I don’t get pregnant now I will never get pregnant. He wants me to have kids before 35 because at 35 change of birth defects is increased. He is afraid I will lose my fertility.

He think he is infertile yet he won’t go to the doctor to check. He wants to have unprotected sex to test this theory. I don’t understand why he doesn’t get tested. Dr says I am fertile whenever I am ready I can.

Why should I create life if I can’t afford to raise this future life. The house isn’t clean my life isn’t perfect. Excuse me for nit picking but a child deserves better than how I live. I refuse to have a child till life is in order. If it never happens its ok. This planet is over populated anyway.

My biological clock is ticking everyone is pressuring me to have kids but I just don’t feel the need to..is there something wrong with me?