Still here in In the Kingdom of Suzu

Still plugging away. We had one counseling session and then each an individual one. Jeff misunderstood the guy that we would both come back and was under the impressive he alone was going this week. When I saw the counselor, his name is bill, he said that was ok and he even lowered his rate. He is hoping to get Jeff to do a trial for depression because he thinks that Jeff has suffered from depression ver the years but never addressed it. We shall see what happens. Right now, Jeff and I are just talking about everyday things altho I did ask him on Saturday if he was also working on his feelings for her (meaning getting her out) and he said that he was. As far as I know, he hasn’t had any contact with her. His band plays Friday and I definitely will be going, I am wondering if she will show up. I did talk to Bill about that and I see bill Thursday so I will discuss it further with him. Bill’s suggestion was to not get into heavy stuff right now with Jeff but it is hard at times not to. Jeff did say that I was hovering over him so I have been trying to give him space and then meet up at dinnertime and the evening. We went for breakfast today and then to Barnes and noble. It was nice.