Unsure in In the Kingdom of Suzu

So, here is the story. He is willing to go to counseling to see if he can get his head on straight but he cannot guarantee anything to me. He still has strong feelings for her and they aren’t going away even tho he hasn’t had any contact with her since Tuesday. They had discussed getting a place together and he had gotten some apartment names BUT didn’t call any of them because he wasn’t sure how he was going to tell me. In other words, he was planning to leave, I just happened to find out before any plans were finalized. I know there are no guarantees in life but am I willing to risk this and he decides he doesn’t want this after all. He has never been to counseling and doesn’t know what to expect but said he would not string me along. He said that he would go into counseling with the idea of seeing if we could make this work, I would feel a lot better if he would be willing to go into counseling with the goal of repairing our marriage. Do I cut my loses now or take the chance that we will succeed. I should mention that it wasn’t the sex with her but it was that they could talk and relate to each other. We used to have conversations but then they got to being superficial and he was depressed. I do have a call into a counselor but I am wondering if I am just spinning my wheels. He says he just doesn’t know cuz his head is all over the place.

Last updated February 02, 2018