Stuff Happens Everyday in meh...

It’s true. Stuff happens everyday, you just have to figure how to deal and move accordingly.

My daughter’s friend was killed by the police yesterday. He use to call me Mommy and would talk about how he would fuss at my daughter about how she acted with me. He was…a character. He was…how can I say this. I don’t want to label him, but sometimes labels help the masses digest it better, but who gives a fuck about the masses. He was himself unapologetically was a man who dressed as a woman and identified with being a woman, was married to a woman who looked like a little boy. They have children and she was pregnant again. My daughter was in shock I guess. She called me from work and told me about what happened. I hadn’t even seen the news for the day. I asked if she was okay. She said she was. Then she went on Social Media and has sworn off of it for a while. She was upset with what people were saying and I could see tears forming, but she didn’t cry. She said she hadn’t talked to him since she told him she was pregnant with Bubby Jr. He apparently slashed at and officer and cut him. The officer and his partner shot him. In front of his kids or at least the kids were home. It’s a long story of harassment that ended like this. Very sad.

In other news…

I got a chance to speak with my friend about LB. She said he was let go after only working for them about 3 weeks. He reached out to me yesterday. I guess with texting, something gets lost in the translation, but even if we spoke on a regular basis I still think he would misunderstand me. I asked how he was he gave me and elongated “I’m fine” and asked about my day. I tell him my day was less hectic than I thought and he starts talking about what I said as if I was describing his day/life. ::smh:: So as usual, I just let that die off.

In more other news…

I had a conversation, verbally and textually with Him.
I tagged him in something I saw on Instagram and it went into his inbox (why does instagram have an inbox feature when hoes is posing for free???) and he got in touch with me. He hipped me to some stuff about his work life and when I questioned it he asked if I could talk? Sure. So he called. First thing he said was that He really missed hearing my voice. Because I’m still single, I don’t know how to respond so I say Oh stop it. So we catch up on life. He congratulated me on catching up to him in the grandchildren area. I was like shaddup. LOL I never asked about his wife because while I’m no longer salty, I’m just not ready for that. He asked about my business with my sister and I told him she died in October and the things I see and the plans that are halted all because my credit is shit. So he offered to give me some advice/help with the social media presence. I’ve told him about the website that was in progress and other struggles. No I’m not in love again. It was good to talk to my friend again. Not going to harp or thing about it. Just wanted to put this down. It’s been two years.

So yeah.
That’s life right now.
Trying not to give no fucks and trying to keep the other fucks to give at bay.

Yay life.
:-\

Kindest regards,
Sister