Thinking About Them in meh...

Perusing my Facebook memories had me looking at my Alabama ex and the guy in the “Him” book in the same thread. I keep wondering if I can call Alabama my ex if he was already married.

This weekend, I had mentioned someone else that I was linked with. I was talking to RJ about this guy I had no business being with, but I was and I paid dearly for it. She said, “I didn’t know about this one.” So I briefly talked about it all to say how when I’m done with someone and don’t care about hurting their feelings to let them know I’m done with them, how I treat them. Needless to say, I haven’t heard from him since I hung up on him when he called me at work. After he identified himself, I said, “Oh GAWD!” and hung up. He would do that from time to time. Call me up after so much time had passed and kept thinking that I was supposed to just be okay. Yes, I’ve forgiven you and I’ve forgiven myself kind of, but I’m adamant that you stay in my history. You are not a friend because friends don’t do people like that.

Alabama didn’t know my powers of cyberstalking. I found his wife on Facebook. I kept asking him if he was married. I kept telling him how he’d seemed to change and seemed different and how I was relegated to specific times and hours. I was like, he is so married. Only married people do that. So my diligence found out the truth and I afforded him every chance to be real and he didn’t. So I took a picture of his wife’s “About” page which featured him as her husband and said to him, we can continue to talk if he could explain it. But until then, it was nice while it lasted. Only heard from him once after that, but that was at my request because I still cared. It took me a minute to get over that. That was like 3 years of my life in limbo because I didn’t know where I stood and if I stood with him. I admit though. He was a distraction from “Him.” Not a very good one because I did sleep with Him while I was “with” Alabama. My life is unnecessarily difficult. Sometimes my fault sometimes not. LOL

Then there’s Him. I’m happy for him, but at the same time I’m hating on him because when you break it down, he replaced one broke chick for another and decided to upgrade the second one even though the first one has been down with him since they met. I steer clear of him ever since that whole “broke” conversation we had. He figured I’d blew off the visit because I was broke, but the real reason was because I’m not coming to that city is because I refuse to be in the wife’s face knowing that I was screwing her husband and I’M the one who put a stop to that practically a couple of months before they got married. Yeah.

So other than that, nothing else is going on with me. That’s not unusual.

So with that, I bid you all a good day.
Take care and such…

Kindest regards,
Sister