it depends on who it comes from/yeah i don't like surprises either. in yes i'm aware it's 2016.

and suddenly i’m in the mood to blog.ok.
and wow my life is just full of interesting lately. [no it is.well i think it is].

um so. on.........yesterday like i said I went to the home depot area. cause i didn’t want to wait ad i was thirsty. and so at 6:10 prior to my leaving I went downstairs and told the lady where i was going and that I had my phone and I thought she should know. [i will never.leave w/o notice. i haven’t done that in almost 3 yrs.]. and she’s sitting there thinking and to me it’s like um.i don’t see what the problem is. i let her know so...........

well apparently.and my mom’s brought this up recently. The lady wants me to let her know earlier. that i’m going somewhere. and when she was telling me this I said ‘i don’t always plan’.which sometimes i don’t sometimes it’s ‘ok i’ve gotten up and i’ll leave a few mins. after but i’ll let them know prior to my leaving that.i’m leaving’. and she said ‘just so it’s not a surprise’. no yeah i get it i don’t like surprises either. [although she didn’t say she didn’t like them and maybe she doesn’t i don’t know she just said she doesn’t want there to be 1].

ok so last night. after I got back I typed up and printed 2 notes for her 1 telling her about Thurs. and the other telling her I might go to the home depot area Thurs. bc she’s the one who talked to me about the schedule thing.and since i’m living w/ her she should.and she did. [well and even if she wasn’t. like w/ valerie most of the time it’s me and her talking about the schedule. i did not know she had the lady’s #. i don’t remember it being discussed. and since it involves me then it should’ve.well you know done just that involved.me i certainly don’t remember consenting to her having the lady’s #.if it’s regarding our schedule i don’t want valerie talking to anyone else about it.right cause it’s our schedule. it’s not a schedule er well.i mean it involves the lady in that. when there’s a change in schedule i let her know. but other than that no]. [and i don’t think.i’m that hard a person to get ahold of if you know the right way to get ahold of me.which is calling and not leaving a VM]. um........... so. right talking to me about the schedule. no and that part isn’t an issue.

See and even now I do this. if it’s summer and I’ve gone out and I come back to my mom’s and my dad tells me to have some water. [ok so this is probably isn’t the best example given i don’t like water.but just for the sake of an example let’s go w/ this]. I probaly won’t. in fact when he tells me to do something like that i’m a lot less likely to do it then when others do. also and again.i’m not stupid. and he has this habit of solving problems. and i know that’s what guys do but evan’s not like that in that regard. Mark’s not like that far as i know. not that i’ve seen.

so my point being.it depends on who it comes from.