being caught unaware. and people taking over. in yes i'm aware it's 2016.

so i really don’t like surprises. well so on Fri. when I got back we did bacg checks. not such a big thing as we always do them whenever i get back from somewhere. but usually she doesn’t check all the pockets of my computer case. This is only the 2nd time she’s done it. I know that when we do room checks she might check the cardboard box at the end of my bed or my suitcase. [well i mean not the ones in the closet]. she’s never checked those. she’s also never looked inside the cardboard boxes on my dresser. But she’s checked my suitcase/box at the end of my bed enough times that during room checks i think ‘she might..........’. and it’s not like i have anything incriminating in either [no cause i won’t be stupid enough to incriminate myself] it’s that.i don’t like surprises.
um so. right on............well actually it was last Mon. valerie came to help me w/ my printer. well. instead of asking me where the cord for the printer was she decides to take over and find...........no.............no. ok so . It’s more that i have an issue w/ people being in my space like my personal space and she was in mine. She was also like ‘swinging’ her body from side to side and that was driving me crazy. I also cause of her proximity to me felt like she was going to hit me. it happens enough times i’ll talk to her about it. i don’t like fast movements. like when birds fly past windows or when people change the tv channels quickly.