my boyfriends's wife's mother in Random Thoughts

Yesterday i walked to the local farmer’s market to pick up a locally made Portland gift for my boyfriend’s wife’s mother (who then was taking or sending it to the southern US). I was chatting with the clerk and realized that i did not stumble (but did micropause) when i said i was buying it for my boyfriend’s wife’s mother. As i was departing, she said to say ‘hi’ to everyone! Then, i thought of how proud i was in saying that, and i wanted to (shout it from the rooftops!). I am so in love, just as thrilled and enchanted as i was, even more so.

Recently i re-read the little bit of our first conversation on okcupid January 9th. There were not too many messages, because we quickly transferred to texting. I could see the places where we were feeling out our sexual (kink) compatibility without being out there and saying, “hey! i am looking for…“.

I have been deeply in love a couple times, but this is the first time it has been with the right person.

It all still baffles me, how easily i fit into his life, how well his wife and i get along, how right this feels.

Last night we watched the season finale of Game of Thrones. It’s been a weekly gathering for the three of us- dinner and tv, then i stay the night. So, he is sitting in the middle of us, hands on each of our thighs.

Just like that.

And he is constantly amazed at how good his life is. I am lucky to be a part of it.