Just Wondering in meh...
- June 4, 2015, 12:59 p.m.
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Have you ever met someone who is in a jacked up situational relationship and they justify up one side and down the other as to why they love that person and why they are with that person and they have this spiritual connection, and why they dedicate the time to that person, yet will look at your jacked up situational relationship and tell you that you’re wasting your time, you should let that go, that’s not real, etc, and so forth?
I want to say “What makes your situation better than mine?”
But then I don’t want to sit and listen the fountain that is bullshit that will spring forth.
So, yeah.
Kindest regards,
Sister
Deleted user ⋅ June 05, 2015
"Have you ever met someone who is in a jacked up situational relationship and they justify up one side and down the other as to why they love that person and why they are with that person"
I have. That 'someone' was me in my 20's - defending my girlfriend to my friends.
I told them "She's a donut but all you guys see is the hole in the middle".
Oh well... I liked my cheesy line, but my friends were right (in retrospect).
The detached can see reality clearer than the couple involved - even while blind to their own 'situation'.
No wonder divorce lawyers are never outta work! haha
Sister Deleted user ⋅ June 05, 2015
The thing, however, is the couple can see it most of the time as well, but for whatever reason don't want to acknowledge it. Because then it's not just a feeling, a doubt. It becomes real and something they ACTUALLY have to deal with.