The Rizzzzz in December 2024

I am fairly certain my daughter is trying to get back together with her Ex-BF, V. I haven’t asked too many details. She made her first insta post this weekend, usually she just shares stories or writes notes. She went to the mall with some friends on black Friday and decided to post actual pictures. Apparently if a boy likes your stories or especially notes (not posts, LOL), that means he’s interested or he likes you. SO she put a note that said “W thanksgiving” and V liked it. SO she’s like, yea he wants me, LOL.
The rumor was he was talking to a sophomore at the boundary HS, he goes to a different school, its a girl that P knows from Jr High. BUT this weekend he posted some notes that make P believe that’s over already. She showed me one that just said BYE with the waving hand emoji.

She was talking to me about the insta stuff so I asked if she likes him again and she said well, I miss him and in my efforts to not raise assholes, I asked that she make sure she misses HIM, not just the thought of him before she goes on this mission. I said don’t be working on getting back together if you are not sure you actually want to get back together. She laughed and says, I am not getting him back, I am leaving crumbs, hints and trails so he wants to get me back…
Ahhh, of course you are. Just don’t be a dick!
As of last night P’s “notes” is the Mariah Carey song, All I want for Christmas is you… subtle kid, real subtle.
Now, I am kinda vested wanting to see if she is in-fact the rizzler she thinks she is…
She has mentioned she can’t seem to “pull” anyone at her HS.
On that note I casually asked M if any girls at his school like him or had a crush on him and he responds, yea mom, A LOT but ugh not me… HAHA.

The volleyball communication has started and I am already overwhelmed. They were up-front and said practice times are a little skewed until mid December cause boys are wrapping up their season, then they sent this spreadsheet, without the lines that’s so fricken confusing. I have read it 3 times and I am still not sure I have everything right. I know she has her 1st practice Friday at 8 but it looks like she will also have one Sunday? We have parents meeting and she has referee clinic Sunday at some random High school already. The way they wrote it is the 7th and or the 8th then we have a time slot? I am SURE keeping all the teams straight is not easy, but the way this thing is written, its like a psychopath wrote it. Okay that might be extreme but they definitely could use some excel spreadsheet help.
Then we get another email about Vegas but it say’s hotels are TBD. I take that to mean to be determined. When you click on one of the other links it shows everything sold out. It’s a “stay to play” which means the club needs a certain % of families to stay in the Hotel they tell us to, they also want you to for team bonding but as far as I can see, they didn’t tell us what hotel. I do not want to have to drive in Vegas. I want to stay within walking distance or tram would be ok too, but no driving or parking! It does say, they want you there Friday even tho games start Saturday and also looks like you have to stay until Monday if your flying or don’t want to drive too late. Pretty sure its on Easter weekend too, which is usually the Holiday we host so I am sure Ma’s gonna love that, haha.

Ohh and bossman is here today and casually mentions, “you know I just got out of rehab, right?” and I was like ahhh, no I didn’t actually. And he say’s yea, I needed to. I said well, good luck with everything, it’s definitely not a bad thing. He say’s yea for me its not, it’s a great thing and I was like, for everyone actually. (sometimes shit just falls out of my mouth)
I want so much to believe him, but it’s hard when you don’t really trust them. I hope he’s being honest and I hope he can overcome, not even for the business, for himself. Drinking that much never ends well.
I also kind of hope he has a calm honest conversation with manager and kitchen dude. Usually he gets on his high horse and orders no one can drink and throws out refrigerators. I truly believe if he approached it as, Hey I really need to do this, but I really could use your help… it would be different!
Let’s see, fingers crossed, for everyone.