Second rant of day in I love life anyway

So. Back to the first entry today. I thought I was being asked if my male friend could drive me a short distance around a building we were in to a garden he is in charge of. I said no. I'll walk. I don't get in cars with everyone. Fast forward to a month ago. In a rant at my bad behavior. Which I fully admit I'm a social failure at times. We all are. He told me I'm dangerous for mistaking him asking me to get in the car. And for saying I don't want to be touched. I am a cautious person. I watch myself carefully and observe others so I don't have issues. I follow by guidelines for my own protection and I value me so much that I would not even want any problems with him, his wife, my husband. I won't even hug a man when no one is around. I admit I'm not always on spot. Yet I try to do my best. I've been accused of saying this man is coming on to me. It's distressing and humiliating. I fear I will be bullied. I never thought he was bothering me. Why would he?  I'm going to continue to care for myself. If I need to walk away from these people for my own peace of mind and to have a better set of friends elsewhere.