When I was in the hospital in Hi

They treated me as though I were elderly. Prior to all this mess I went to the Y 4 days a week. I am a proportional height and weight. There is nothing about me that reads elderly.

They asked me : Do you still drive?
Are you able to care for yourself independently?
They asked me to touch various parts of my body. Finger to finger, toe to toe, etc

Seemed very insulting.

2 days post op with a Foley catheter ( abdominal split open) Why couldn’t I walk, do I usually walk

By damned, I am walking today. One very unusual thing, a male nurse took out his IPhone and took a picture of my vagina. Is that protocol or creepy? I know there is nothing sexy about my almost 68 year old body. That seemed peculiar.