Arguing over chores middle of night in Life of a cat mom

My husband woke me up during the night to lecture me..again instead arguing with him I let him talk. He got upset because during his lecture I started a load of clothes I wasn’t responding to him. I asked him if he ever cleaned the cats litter box. He kept wanting to argue while he complains I took out the trash and cleaned the litter box. My husband helped me take out the trash only to go to bed. I did the litter by myself and took it out. My husband got upset because he didn’t get the argument he wanted. He is now asleep beside me.

I will give him credit. He did mow some of moms yard while I weed wacked. I fed Mom’s dog and cat. My husband expects me to work on moms house,moms mobile home which I have to remodel with moms house,my house and have everything in order while also having a job 5 out of 7 days a week. He only works 3 days a week but he says his ADHD stop him from cleaning because he is so exhausted.

When he argued I get tired and don’t respond. I get tired of arguments. He gets pissed because I decided it isn’t worth answering back anymore.

My husband used change and paid for groceries at Aldi’s. I let him choose everything while I simply pushed the buggy. We paid with rolled quarters. Payday is on Friday we just got to make it.

Now that he is asleep I might be lucky enough to get some rest before work. God help me because I am to tired to try.