Resolve in I don't know....

The problem with going to my parents or even sending the kids to them is that Eric doesn’t physically see that the choices he makes are affecting us and hurting us. He needs to hit the bottom of the barrel and understand that his choices at the few jobs he has had and been fired from, recently, have hurt us tremendously.

When he started working for the largest poultry porducer in the world, I told him to go to work and keep his mouth shut. I didn’t realize that as he moved up there were ppl there holding his hand and trying to get him to learn. In the last 12 years a lot has changed and a lot of employers don’t have the time to coddle someone.

So, I am digging in. I know what the consequences are. I really do. The best thing I can do for my husband right now is to let him fall. I can steer him in making choices that are right and not “shady”. I can try and do what I can on my part, but the truth is, my hands are tied in a lot of ways and the truth is, my husband has to learn to man up and stand on his own two feet.