own your faults in Hi This is Kat!

Have you ever met a person who never owns their mistakes? Always it is someone’s fault. No matter what… they have an excuse! Jo is like that. She has blames every dad thing that has happened to her on Cole, Randy and her family. Her marriage failed cause she had to visit her parents every weekend… it had nothing to do with her having an affair....
Her life is ruined because Cole was born and he put a damper in her partying… And Randy is just stupid and does not do ALL the work… she wanted him to clean and cook…so she does absolutely nothing but party!
I love her but I really feel part of her problem is not owning her mistakes! She had a baby and really did not want him so she blames him. He kept her from going out and drinking so she drank at home and neglected him and as he got a little older she hit on him… she was disappointed because he was a slow learner yet NEVER helped him study and now I feel she is the cause of him being schizophrenic.
She kept this from me when we first became friends…and I only found out a few years ago. :(
She blames her parents for getting old and needing her to come help on weekends… she blamed her youngest brother for dying as a young adult and she blamed her oldest brother for being a ward of the state because he is mental.... because THEY should have been there to help her!

Her car is full of trash because she has to keep everything in her car so Randy does not look thru or read her mail… ???

I guess it bothers me that she is so quick to blame others!
She blames me the reason she did not have a Christmas at my house with her family is because my family was here and I never set a date

In All reality it is totally because of her drinking…so sad that alcohol ruins lives!
NOTHING else really matters but where the next drink is coming from