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The closer it gets to Christmas the more unkind Jo will get… she really has issues with Christmas. She has NEVER EVER put up a christmas tree during the years I have known her. Jo does not do any household work! She does not clean, cook, decorate or yard work. She is a hoarder…
When her mother was alive she had Christmas via her moms doings. She has been gone maybe 8 years? Now the only Christmas Cole gets is from me. BUT I am not sure it means anything to him… he probably has horrible memories of never having a tree like the other lil kids… never getting to see Santa, never having a magical Christmas… his was always ruined by his parents fighting, his parents getting drunk and only gifts were from his grandma.
Sad isn’t it.

In November jo has good intentions… she talks about buying gifts, wrapping them and having Christmas here with a nice dinner! But the closer it gets the less she wants to shop and says she is not going to run around town like a stripped ass monkey buying gifts that he only will return… She wants to come less and less… AND to be quite truthful they have only made it here for a dinner TWICE before christmas.... most of the time I do all the work for her to be a no show and then to just stop by after the first of the year to get the gifts I bought for Cole… I guess he gets them… maybe they get lost in her car?

She becomes hateful this time of the year… even to me she becomes rude… like saying I am not getting you anything for Christmas… I always reply that is ok… I do not need anything but you. BUT she says this several times a day. She just falls deeper and deeper into the bottle.

No wonder Cole has his mental issues… they say schizophrenia can be caused me abuse as a child… he has had so much mental abuse it makes me sad… I try but I am really too late to make a difference. That is why when he goes off his is violent to Jo. His angry voices tell him feds are listening to him.... people are talking bad things about him thru walls, TVs, radios, and Jo’s phone. One night he smashed her phone in tiny pieces while jo slept… She was lucky he did not harm her! She is only 5 foot two and weighs about 100 pounds very frail!

She used to hit on him when he was a small kid… she would smack him around and tell him how she hated him and how worthless he is.... I DID NOT KNOW THIS.... She told me these things recently when she is drunk. :(

No wonder she cannot sleep well....

Alcohol is the devil!