Health insurance shit in Bittersweet

Ok so there is a lot for it…Im not sure what the fuck im doing.
Im on Kaisers website and they have some cool features. I can speak with a doctor on the app, or have a virtual visit. Have my meds refilled ect all on the app with virtual visits.
BUT I think i need to see a gyno and I cant schedule that online. It says to choose a primary care giver, So you type in your addres and it pulls up a huge list and then you can open them up but have no way to adding them as a primary caregiver. It says choose it. THEN upload your medications lists THEN schedule an appt. But Im stuck on the add a primary caregiver. I found a place that isnt that far that takes Kaiser, has a female Family practitioner and hopefully can do a gynoexam. But chances are, they may make me go to some hospital or some shit for a visit.
Ive been bleeding during sex. Not after, or like from rough sex. But every time we have sex, not rough, but in general. I start bleeding. Badly… My blankets are in the wash and wont be done any time soon because there was a ton of blood from last night. Its about 22 hours later and I just stopped bleeding. Google suggests is a benign polyp. But a family practitioner may not do gyno exams. In Ak they did. But here is weird. Both times ive set up appts with a fam dr, they have said they dont do that and referred me elsewhere for a “well woman” check. Like weird right? Thats odd? I found a womans place that does gyn and obs that accepts most insurances, But i dont know if they came up on Kaiser’s search? I would have to call and ask I guess. I HATE that.

We have new dental plans too. It has a $30 copay for most dental work. And then 30% on big shit like the root canals i need which are 1500 each. But they only cover 2K per year. So I could get one done and thats it. They also cover 2K worth of orthodontics throughout your life. So T was thinking of getting braces.

Its nice, but its also SO stressful. Like… I need to call our payroll place and make sure they they added my deductions for health insurance too. Lord knows I dont want it to be canceled before i get started or some shit. Because they never responded when I emailed about it.... Sigh.

Im already stressed. And im feeling so discouraged and stressed about the bleeding. My friend died of cancer that metastasized to her uterus and cervix and one of the big symptoms she had was bleeding irregularly.

Bring on the lightning.... going to bed....