Threats! in Since OD is shutting down....

So, he talked to her this morning. He said he wanted me to dump her off Wednesday at 3 until 6pm. I mentioned that’s a long time during the week. He said that if I don’t let him see her that he will be taking legal action. I said do what you need to and that doesn’t he think I want him to have her consistently? That’s when he stopped responding. I think it’s great that he’s never cared about being a Dad all along and now we’re threatening legal action?

I refuse to be coerced into anything. I don’t take threats lightly and I will not be bringing her on Wednesday. I think the best thing that could happen is for the courts to be involved. Let the pieces fall where they may. He doesn’t understand that I have already talked to a lawyer and I know that he won’t get any type of custody because he has been charged and convicted of a domestic assault charge, the most he’ll get is visitation. I don’t care what he does but I won’t be controlled any more in this than I already have. He’s gotten to pick and choose being there physically and financially for almost 6 years so for him to decided that I’m going to do what he wants or I have to worry about legal action is ridiculous.

I think it’s also great how I’ve tried to reach out for 6 years for the sole purpose of trying to get him to be a parent and then he threatens this. I know that there’s someone he’s trying to look good for. He’s always been a deadbeat and he should probably worry about taking care of his warrant before trying to do anything else. It’s also great that he owes PLENTY of CS and thinks that’s not going to work against him? And that he’s already waited this long? The guy doesn’t have a pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of so I’m not concerned in the slightest. Maybe I should be more concerned than I am but I’ve done nothing but deal with his abuse and threats for 7 years that now I don’t even bat an eye. I’m used to it.

You can only threaten and abuse someone for so long before it falls on deaf ears. If the guy actually cared, he would have done it years ago.

I just know he was hoping for one helluva reaction out of me to show whoever he was trying to impress and all he got back was maturity and sanity. I have learned to be super aware of my responses and how I word everything. I’m not stupid.