Our "awesome" family drama. in 2014

We had an 80th bday party for my gramma who hasn't been well, on Sat. It was so much fun and everyone had a good time. However, I need to rant about my cousin. Who I've ranted about before lol.

Her name is Jessie and shes a bitch. There were like 12 kids at this party so I took the time to round up some plastic pools and get them in my grammas yard. I filled them w/ water earlier in the day but then I needed to refill them later that night. I grabbed the hose and one from the neighbors house and started filling both of them. Miley and Makayla (Makayla is Tiffany's daughter) started to grab the hose so I told them and all the other kids around, that no one was to grab the hose, and that there were too many people around for stuff like that and I know Syria and Bella don't like getting water in their faces.

So after that big speech, I turn around and Jessie's daughter Anna (2) grabs the hose and starts spraying everyone. Well lots of the kids didn't like that but Jessie grabs her camera and starts taking photos like its the cutest thing ever. Bitch! You just heard my speech! And you see two of the kids crying! She kept telling the other kids that Anna didn't know better and shes just kidding and its water so suck it up pretty much. Argh... Then later Miley grabs the hose and sprays Bella a bit and she called MY KID a bully. Oh thats right, I forgot, if YOUR precious princess does it, its cute, but my kid does it and shes instantly a bully. Whatever.

I was so pissed.

Later on, my aunt had her iPad out and she was skyping with my cousin Cassie from Toronto who couldn't make it. Cassie and Jessie (both my cousins, and are cousins) do not like each other. Well no, Cassie loves everyone, Jessie doesn't like Cassie. Never has. My aunt hands Jessie the iPad on skype with my cousin and Jessie flat out said "oh great, Cassie" in the most unimpressed voice I've ever heard. I just thought it was rude as fuck. So shes skyping away acting like she likes her and I happen to walk behind Jessie and I wave at Cassie through the camera. We all know I love Cassie, I visit her in Toronto all the time and I'm in her wedding party next year. I just waved... Jessie said "Oh look, there is Kristen, poking her head in like always"...

What does that even mean? lol

She was just rude for the whole afternoon and I guess it got worse that night around the campfire. I didn't go out to the campground with everyone but I sent Chris to go have some fun. Well I guess the whole time she was super negative and kept saying stuff like "this is boring" "why aren't we doing anything" "I'm so bored" "this sucks" over and over. Everyone was calling her Debbie Downer and stuff.

I'm so over her. I see today on Facebook that my sister in law was here and of course only got a hold of my brother in law and Jessie (my cousin married my bro in law, I've said it before but just in case you're new here) ... They never think to contact us. Meanwhile every single time we are in the city, we always make a point to get in touch with them...

This is another reason why it kills me to think of leaving Chris, his fuckin family sucks so bad and would never include him. He doesn't have parents. He literally IS my family because he didn't have any. My family took him under their wings because of all this happening and his mom dying. Ugh, makes me so sad.

I know hes a big boy and can handle life on his own but he shouldn't always be forgotten about by his family. :( Breaks my heart.

Kristen <3