Being Selfish? in Help Me Please

Do you think it’s okay to have me come first then everyone else? Or should I make sure everyone else is happy and then me? And you think there are those who would eb upset if they have to wait till I get something done when they ask me to do it? Or what if I don’t do it at all? Do Ineed to have a reason and explain it to them?
I think the best way to get things done is consider the source where it’s comming from and then do what makes you happy.
There is still a part of me that is worried that when the landlady comes backs that my new me and the changes I have made dealing with her that she will threaten to evict me because I am not complying with her so called rules. And the reson is because none of these so called rules are written down and I have not signed my permission so until them I will go by what the law of renting is. And even when her rules are written down I still don’t have to sign it.
I have a question for you? When you go to sleep at night do you turn down your heat because you are comfortable with that tempoature or is it because you want to save money or a bit of both? And what if someone in your home complains tht it’s a bit too cold for them? Do you compermise and raise the heat a bit?
Since the landlady has been gone the heat has been at anywhere from 65 to 73 and I have found that 69 to 70 is the perfect tempature for me. And I can actually feel the heat comming through the vents and it does feel nice and even the bathroom is nice and warm. I wonder how much it is for the heat to stay at 70 for the winter months? I would even pay the difference but I need it written down in the lease otherwise I won’t do it.
I find when there is compermise and communication that I am much happier and more able to do what others want me to do. I do know life is give and take and sometimes one side gives more then they take and that is okay sometimes.
I have figured out why I take naps and go to bed early is because I can feel the heat and I know with the heat I can fall asleep easier and get a better quality of sleep. But when I wake up and the heat has been turned down i wake up really cold and then I am in a horrible mood.

Onto something else…
Dinner last night was left over spagetti sauce and noodles because the whole chiken I have wasn’t thawed enough so it will be for dinner tonight.
This is how I am going to be doing the chicken…

https://downshiftology.com/recipes/easy-roast-chicken/
I am thinking of having roasted potatoes and carotts and celery with it because then it’s in one dish and clean up is easy.
And for today I want to get some laundry done and get my groceries put away and then after that watch some mindless TV.

And on this note…
I will stop here....
Do have a great day…
Be Kind, Be Calm, Be Safe and Behave.

P.S. Sammy…I am sorry you have snow..really I am but I don’t want it so let it melt.

Last updated January 24, 2023