After almost a year... in General musings

The phone rings this morning. Yeah, checking caller id, it’s him.. I yell down to hub not to answer it, then realize he’s gone outside to fill the bird feeders. I look out and see a vehicle out front, but it’s hidden by hedges. Hub comes round and goes to the mailbox, I see him looking down the road. He comes in and I tell him about the call. My messenger app pings…a message from him saying he’d been outside my house, but was “scared” to come say hello…he wanted to wish me a belated happy birthday and how much he misses me. I feel so stalked and creeped out.