Does Life really Suck that Much? in Help Me Please

Here is a question for you? How can anything really suck if we have no control over it? We can only control us and no one else even though we do try to have total control of those we love. And what makes you think that if you tell someone what they are doing is wrong you really think they will listen to you? I think the only people you have control over is your young children but once they start to think for themselves then there is no more control and you have to hope they will do what is right and moral.
I think when something in our life isn’t going the way it should we automatically blame the circumstances but really it’s all us who are and is creating this misfortune. Like when we gain weight we are obviously eating too much of something. I have never seen anyone gain weight by eating too many apples so it has to be the carbs and the sugars and the salt right? So once we stop eating these things we start to feel better and can move a lot better and our bodies don’t seem to hurt as much.
But I know my life doesn’t suck because I am doing the best I can with what I got and everything I have done good or bad has made me into the person I am today and to tell you the truth I actually like me. Yes I can do better and I will in time but it has to be me who changes. just because someone says to change it’s not all that easy and does take time.
if you think about it we have all changed over the years and it’s for the better and we do feel much better but that help usually came from others and from the experts. And once we realized just how beneficial this would be we adopted this into our own lives and we are much better for it.

Onto something else.....

Well it looks like fall is finally here and then winter will show it’s ugly head. I just wish it would snow Christmas day and then no more because the clean up of the snow is what I call a lot of work and depending on how wet the snow is is dependent how long it takes to make a clear path so the government workers won’t kill themselves walking down your sidewalks. But fortunately for me I live around the back and only a selected few will come here and they have a heads up to be careful. But you do know that if the mail person thinks their path is hampered then they don’t have to deliver anything to you. And by law people have to clear their sidewalks or they will get a fine and eventually end up in jail for non compliance.
I really don’t like this change of weather because I look out my window and just see darkness and the rain and sometimes that is really depressing but then I think of these who are homeless and have to deal with these elements and have no choice of where to go to stay dry and warm.

Onto something else....

Well I am not sure if I have anything else to say here because my poor brain is all over the place so maybe now is a good time to stop.
Do have a great day and Be Kind, Be Calm, Be Safe and Behave.

Last updated October 17, 2021