My parents moved. in Since OD is shutting down....

Oh do I have a story to tell. So my daughter and I went because they needed help moving and my older brother didn’t help much because he was working so he could only come for a few minutes. I literally couldn’t believe how my Dad acted the entire day. So the first thing was the way he kept talking to my child. He has yet another big dumb dog and refuses to teach it anything so as soon as we walk in the door, the door is barking and growling at my child so she’s crying and scared. After a few minutes of her crying, my Dad says to her, “omg why do you have to be such a fucking crybaby” and I straight up said no, we don’t talk to my child that way, then came the excuses how he’s just tired and stressed out.

Then, he had lost the bungee cords so we had to make just 1 load for an entertainment center and a weight bench because they had to lay down since it was windy and couldn’t stand them up. Then, he’s having meltdowns all day long which consisted of him screaming and throwing shit around so my kid is holding onto the back of my shirt scared out of her mind. Then, he decides I can’t drive my Mom’s truck for whatever reason and then at the end of the night, snatches her car keys out of my hand. This is the way my Dad has treated me my entire life and I’m sick of it.

I’m so angry at my Mother for not going through with the divorce and we are ALL stuck with him. I just wish things could be different, way different. I have to say that my Mother is the root of all of this because she NEVER GOT AWAY FROM HIM! I just think it’s bullshit that we are all stuck with this cringeball because of her! I’ve made it more than clear that my kid isn’t going to be around him, especially if I’m not there and now I just know if I ask her to babysit, she’s going to want me to bring me kid to their house even with me saying no a thousand times and saying that I’m never going to trust him no matter what he ever does or says. You can’t change history!

I have just never seen a bigger control freak. He’s the reason why my older brother and I never got money like we were promised because he never helped my Mother pay the mortgage so they owed a shit ton of money and their was bills that didn’t get paid that became judgments and had to be paid with their closing. He went through a few months of hell when my Mom left and came out on top just like he’s always done.

None of us kids have ever had serious issues with my Mom. All we do is talk shit about him and yet, there he is still caught up in the mix. He acts like he’s such a fucking hero and for what? They bought a new house outright because they didn’t want to pay a mortgage on a house they destroyed just so they can have a new house to destroy! I told them that once they start smoking in the new house, my daughter can’t be there at all because I don’t want her to have tubes in her ears but I know my Dad isn’t going to go OUTSIDE to smoke because he NEVER FUCKING HAS!

It just makes me really sad and irate that NONE of them are willing to change. They are just so set in their fucking ways and that’s that. It’s never going to get any better because no one wants to get any help! They left their old house absolutely disgusting and I wanted to crawl in a hole when the new owner showed up. The carpet was completely trashed, the walls looked like a murder scene and it smelled like ass.