Mooches! in Since OD is shutting down....

I will never understand how people don’t care to have any contact with you whatsoever unless they fucking need something! So there’s this guy that I’ve known for about 5-6 years that had a girlfriend when we met that claimed they were broken up and then tells me after we had hooked up that they just had a big fight and had made up. He’s admitted to this and apologized for it. Well then, I don’t hear from him for a few years and then get a letter from him while he was IN PRISON! He had embezzelled a shit ton of money from his employed and went down for it, namely for his child’s Mother. Blah blah blah right? Well I’ve seen him a couple times recently and then won’t hear from him again until times are bad. He had been blowing up my phone last night while I was at work but I thought it was just my work app so I didn’t bother to check my phone. He then called me saying he wasn’t working, had gotten into a rip with his child’s Mother and needed somewhere to stay!

I wasn’t equipped with a lie so I just told him I wasn’t planning to even leave work until about 2am since we were so far behind. He kept texting me asking if he would be able to stay and I said that I had to work doubles the next 4 days and my daughter’s Dad would be at my house watching her. I’m not a liar or a good one at that but I have to protect my child and my home. I am in no position to house some creep that just got out of prison a few months ago, doesn’t have a place of his own, a car, and has done nothing but lie to me from the day I met him!

It’s just crazy to me how people don’t have any regard for others at all. He’s one of the few that knows my situation as a single Mom and that I don’t even get CS but tried to invade my home by needing somewhere to stay! UNREAL! As much as I want people to understand my situation, all they do is try to take advantage!

I am again reminded why I just work and hang out with my kid. It’s so much cheaper and way less stress that way. I feel like I have to constantly protect myself and my child from the outside world because people just want to walk all over me. I NEVER go out of my way to help others anymore because people have used and abused so much nor do I expect anyone to ever help me so I don’t understand why this guy would think I would allow him to stay at my house after he’s completely brought all of his problems upon himself!!

He’s another one that doesn’t pay CS and owes thousands. I wouldn’t ever even consider allowing my own baby daddy to live me, why the fuck would I let someone else’s?! That would be trading one bum for another! I’ve hung out with him a couple of times recently, while I paid for my daughter to be at daycare a couple extra hours and I of course had to pay for that! I don’t ever even try to hang out with anyone if it means extra time away from my kid and more money coming out of my pocket! It’s sad that I went above and beyond trying to hang out with this person just for him to continue to pop in and out of my life and just keep lying about shit!!

Now that I just don’t care even if I hear from him or not, he wants me to care for him enough to let him live off me. LOL!!! Probably fucking not. After the shit I’ve been through, no one will ever live at my house again. I like my house just the way it is and I don’t even have room for someone to be here. There’s no extra bedrooms and I would feel suffocated having to share my living space with any more than my child and my cats.

Anyways, gonna lay down my back is killing me.