The other shoe? in General musings

Has it dropped? Well, his behavior yesterday could be attributed to "Old F", I suppose. And this morning he started off with replying to my goodnight text with "No. You did not talk tome yesterday so I am not talking to you ever again." Which I did not take seriously. I know when he is just being a brat, and he immediately followed it with "Of course I will talk to you later. :-p" I told him I was waiting for the tile guy to show up and he said, "fine be that way. Let some other guy tile you" So I told him, 'Don't worry you're the only one who can tile me right'. So there was a little more risque texting, but soon he got on the "hubby" tack, until utterly frustrated, I wrote, 'I am starting to feel like a not very important part of a relationship you are having with hubby instead of me...' (Thought to myself, oh, you've done it now) It took a little while, but he responded, "Not at all. I want to have no conflict and to be able to spend time with you." So again I said, 'I don't think he's going to be a problem...he seems very resigned.' Then his tone changed again, and he just started "small talk-type texts", that he's getting a haircut and doing his taxes to night, etc. So I busied myself transferring music to my Ipod and a John Denver song just got to me, and I exploded, crying - full on snot dripping hysteria....why does the man I love have to be so unstable, why can't he just love me like a normal person? Why does this have to be our lives?