I'm this kinda friend in Second 1st

I know.... I just did a three entry update yesterday. I know not a lot could have happened in 24 hours.... because I’m drama free.... BUT

William messaged and asked if he could crash at my place for a night. That he’d be looking for apartments in the morning and just needed a place to crash. YEAH!.... when people ask this (people meaning friends) I wonder why they think I got such a big place for just Rocky and I.... or why they think I have a “guestroom” ....

William offered dinner but Rocky hadn’t gotten up till 3 so we had a late lunch and no way was I hungry. William decided Mexican sounded good so we hit a little place not too far from here. I snacked on chips and salsa. Before long Marco showed up and though the story had already been told to me William repeated it to Marco....

It’s been a long time coming with the fight they had yesterday morning. Williams kinda a private guy so it’s not like anyone would have known this but.... his wife apparently has a spending problem. When I tried to clarify I said “Like spend $200 in the dollar tree in one trip?” “No like spend $1000 in one trip and have hardly anything to shop for it as if she just dropped it off at Good Will on the way home.” Apparently she does stuff like that frequently and he has no idea where it goes. He’s really sick of it. She downloaded that cash app thing and he said now the bank just shows “cash app” on withdraws .... he has no idea where the money goes.

So.... William has 2 kids with Nicole now.... Ally and Brennan. I don’t know why he didn’t tell me. In all honesty it would have been better to tell me when I wasn’t at work and able to talk to people all the time......

ANYWAYS.... Him and his wife decided that they were going to take Nicole to court to get more/structured time with his kids. They decided to take one of the cars to a title loan place and get cash.... of course ya’ll know that’s a bad idea to start with and William quickly realized that the $1500 they got for the car was going to cost them about $5000 if they paid it back in the scheduled payments but .... his kids are important to him so .... they went to a lawyer. Turns out the lawyer would cost him nearly $5000 .... so he decided to turn the money back in.

Being married you are part of a team and he relied on his wife to pay the title off while he worked nearly the whole week.... that was 2 1/2 weeks ago. A week later he had asked her if she had paid it and she said she would. A week after that he asked her and she said she would. He asked her how much she still had and she said 1000.... meaning she spent 500 in a week with predesignated money… and yesterday he looked in her purse and she had $345.... he took it. She was with Nicole helping her move to yet another place… go fig. She’s been helping her move for like 3 days now. .... so… yesterday morning before she left they had a fight about the money and her spending issue. He went to work. She blocked him on every social media and his phone number from her phone so that he couldn’t call her.... until she wanted to talk to him. She told him she was filing for divorce and wanted the house. He said she can have it if she gets papers saying that if she sells in in the next 10 years he gets half otherwise he would like to sell it and get half. After she laid out there that she’s working on a divorce and they got off the phone she cleaned out the bank account. William closed it and opened another then let her know that the money she had taken was the house note so she needed to be sure to pay that. He’s worried about being able to see his kids (total 5.. 3 with wife, 2 with Nicole) so he want’s to get established ASAP. This being the case I’m sure I would look at this differently if he were wallowing in his crap.... he thinks he’ll be here a couple days and I’ve told him a couple months would be fine. If he’s got to get on a waiting list or something ya know.....

So, we have a new house guest who is already all about how soon he can move out. It is good for me.... just a reminder.... I”m this kind of friend… I have always been this kinda friend.... even though I am an open book and will tell your shit because I have a big mouth.... I will also totally help you pick yourself up by your boot straps and I will fight with anyone who has anything bad to say about your bad choices.... we all make them… I’m this kinda friend.

On the other hand.... I texted Krystal to see if she would go to breakfast.... she’s not on this morning… oddly.... she’ll see it and maybe we will go out Monday. I miss her.... it’s been about 3 months since our last hang out so we are well overdue.... and I HAVE TO tell her about Williams shit ..... being as they don’t see each other.

7:50 and MTurk goal is already 6.36/10 and I was going to take today off and work on the diamond painting BUT.... it’s in the room with William so I can’t do anything till he gets up.... might as well work right? I don’t expect he will get up till at least 9 when he can make phone calls to offices....