pressured to get pregnant in Misadventures of West Virginia Woman

My husband wants a baby. He got the easy job.. He makes a kid and that pretty much it for 9 months. He doesnt get fat. Go through painful labor. He doesnt ruin his figure or have postpartum depression. He may or may not be there to raise the kid.. someone please give me the advantages of getting pregnant and having kids? Patch says having kids was the best thing she ever done.. i havent been on vacation or ever had a life.. everyone acts like if i dont have kids now i never will.. I see nothing wrong with adoption. I hate having the pressures that women should have children. What is your opinion? I am 32 but everyone swears i will have a kid with birth defect.. none of them are drs..wtf do they know?