Locked out,mobile home shopping, bff mistaken for mom in Misadventures of West Virginia Woman

Since dad died mom has melt downs over small things. She often forget things that really matter. She locked the inside glass door between the concrete room and the rest of the house. She begged my husband to pick the lock for Talan to tell mom his lock picks are broke. He can’t. Mom got in the concrete room with Bear her dog but forgot she hid keys that i knew about. I got the keys unlocked the door for her and she cried admitting she missed dad. I cried too! I miss him. I keep my promise as long as mom is alive i will care for her for dad.

I watched Twilight with her. We talked until i was sure mom was calm. She depends on me more than my brother. Tommy. Tommy only helps when it convinces him somehow. I however come over in my pajamas to save the day.

Today i dropped my husband off at work. I kept the truck with intentions sleeping my day off away. Tella my best friend kept calling me saying the men in her house are driving her nuts. I was hoping for rest but Tella wouldnt give me a break!

Me and Tella went to look at a mobile home i found on the facebook yardsale page. I discovered the property is 3/4 an acre the porches were only half way built. I asked to see the inside but the people selling it lives an hour away told me they will only come if i am serious. I was thinking of buying it but they wouldn’t let me see inside. Tella told me i deserve better mom who i brought after work said obviously it is to high priced and they are not motivated sellers. Mom told me arrange an appointment to look on inside if interested she will ask bargain them down due to them wasting her time! They said the power was off but the meter was running they said they turned off the water i asked if they blew out the lines still silence. I grow irritated with these people no wonder why they didnt get the $12,000 they want.

It was free icecream day to celebrate first day of spring. Tella and I got an icecream cone a piece at Dairy Queen it was awesome. We went to Goodwill tried on dresses and outfits. Tella who is a 2x in shirts a 26 wide in pants growled nothing was in her size. I told her let me find stretchy clothes and i will go in dressing room with her in case she gets stuck. We found several beautiful dresses that looked beautiful on us. I keeping told her she is fabulous and beautiful that we will take pictures of all these pretty outfits to post online. Tella said i always find ways to make her feel beautiful. I reminded her she is already beautiful!

She growled about being fat which i often talked about myself i criticize my own body. I told her its ok we will go on walks together find free exercise classes to be healthier. I told her lets decorate what we got love the skin we are in! She picked me outfits i picked her outfits and i told her she is fabulous and beautiful. Tella giggled with joy grabbing my hand telling me i am her Barbie dragging me to a dressing room.

A teenager told me she loved my tie dye dress. I told her thanks i got it from a local thriftshop for $4.50. The teenager smiled said me and my mom is such an inspiration that she hopes her and her mom will be like me and my mom in a 20 years years. I laughed realized Tella my best friend who is 3 years younger than me was mistaken as my mom..lol. I told her always stay friends with her mom it is the best blessing! I told her if they like thrift shopping to definitely try yardsales and fleamarkets. I told her her and her mom can look fabulous on the cheap! She thanked me and her mom thanked me for telling her daughter a mom is a best friend. I am best friends with my mom. My friends call her mom and visit often!

I work at Ollies. Tella wanted go there to look at the mattresses. While in the bathroom i was washing my hands when water went everywhere. I asked Tella if her waterbroke even though she isnt pregnant joking. Her toilet overflowed. I told my boss the toilet overflowed for Erica to laugh went over the radio announcing i clogged up the toilet! Hold up what? Tella admitted she did it Erica said its ok we blaming it on me so everyone will tease me! All my fellow employees harassed me! Teasing me asking why cant i go to Walmart to blow up their toilet instead here! I was embarassed. Erica did a good job embarassing me.

Tella wanted me to buy her KFC after i bought her a meal at Mcdonalds due to my limited funds i couldnt afford a $20 meal for her! We caught food on discount at walmart she got a sub and a pastry, i got a salad and a cinnamon roll. With our food on sale i paid $7 for our dinner. I love a good sale.

Tella found out i have a bookbag in my truck is made for picnics. I often carry it in case i need it. It has plates utensils i need and has a build in radio. Tella talked about starting to go on picnics with it and she cant wait to grow my dads memorial community garden. She asked me if she can get some food for her mother in law if she helps me in garden of course the answer is yes. I never thought so many people would be willing to help in this garden. My mother didnt either she cried to know everyone wants to help us. I guess we will see if its just all talk in the spring. Even my friend Amanda Dawn named things she wanted in it.

I came home after a long day to a grumpy tired husband Talan who told me i wasn’t allowed to go out i should have stayed home. He complained a friend from work had to drive him home. I reminded him if he replaced his tire on his car transportation wouldnt be an issue! He wants to buy all 4 tires at once which we cant afford! I told him replace 1 at a time that we can put them on rim balance them in dads garage i will teach him! He told me not to go out wait on him but see i am rebellious and see so many good options! I refused to put “to honor and obey” in my wedding vows for a reason.. Because i do what i want! No marriage certificate pacified my rebellious spirit.
Good night world! Till tomorrow nap time

Last updated March 21, 2019