Arguement over having kids or not in Misadventures of West Virginia Woman

My husband came in arguing upset because due to me being unable to take oral contraception i use condoms to prevent pregnancy. He said he is married not a child he demands to choose when i get pregnant.He demands us not to use condoms he wants to go barebacked saying its time for him to have kids. He acts like his opinion is the only one that matters. Where the hell is my opinion?

I told him either let me have children when i am ready or i will be permanently fixed still make him use condoms due to sanitary reasons. He says he think he might be unfertile lets have unprotected sex to find out. He got upset when i said he can test his fertility at a doctor. He said dr wont let me get fixed without my husbands permission. I asked him what about ex husband? Dont mess with me! I take my reproductive health seriously.

I will be 32 next week. I know i am older but you don’t create what you cannot feed! I am already married to a child why should i create a spare?

My husband demanded us get me pregnant get on wic and foodstamps. He said my parents had to get help from dhhr once.. Nope! Not entire life. My mom has been psych nurse for almost 40 years. Has stayed at same job longer than i have been alive.It wasnt until adulthood i couldnt make enough money to feed my family.

When Talan didnt work 3 month this summer refused to sign up for foodstamps telling me to make do. I have been getting 12 hours a week at work recently he still refuses to sign up. If he cant help feed us now what makes him think he going get me pregnant try to pull same shit again?

My husband is complaining i need to get off the diary to cook him lunch because he was called into work. As always i got to hand deliver him everything he needs to get ready. Funny when i get ready he wont lift a damn finger.

He wants to argue about i have to many clothes.. He dont realise if we have kids my clothes wont look like much at all.. I cant afford his urge to have kids.. Just because he been arguing with me i am tempted to get fixed never tell him the difference.. Why can i choose to have kids or not?