NoJoMo 13 in Book Five: Working Through the Maze 2018

NoJoMo 13 Prompt 1: What are you passionate about?

NoJoMo 13 Answer 1: I’d say many things. Because if I’m not passionate about something, it is really hard to be motivated about it. I’m passionate about trying to help victims… and the reality of that (that too few people understand) is that TO HELP sometimes means NOT prosecuting. If I have a traumatized 12 year old victim and I can’t get the conviction without that child testifying, and the conviction is doubtful even WITH that testimony… I’m going to work with the child, the child’s parent, and the child’s therapist. And if the child and the therapist say, “Being on the stand will emotionally cripple this child”… then I don’t care what the parents say… I want to protect the victim from being further traumatized. I’ll throw a plea deal at the defendant in an attempt to protect the vulnerable child. I’m passionate about Video Games and Comic Books. I’m passionate about curiosity.

NoJoMo 13 Prompt 2: What is the quality you most like in a man? In a woman?

NoJoMo 13 Answer 2: Now, some may refuse the duality in this question by either saying “I’m not interested in Specific Gender, so I won’t answer Specific Gender.” Meanwhile, some may try to take an Egalitarian perspective saying, “What I like in a person does not depend on their gender.” I’m going in a different way.

Not sexually attracted to men; BUT what is a quality I most like in a man:
Strong face that shows kindness, an openness about interests or passions, the ability to communicate

Some qualities should be in someone despite gender, quality I admire in both: Kindness, communication, fashion, hygiene

Sexually attracted to women; what is a quality I most like in a woman: Fashion is huge. Every person can look stunning if they find a makeup/fashion combination that works for them. Many people can look stunning without tailoring makeup and/or fashion… but everyone can look stunning if they find a makeup/fashion combination that works for them. Beyond that?
Eyes. Seriously… if Wife’s eyes weren’t so captivating, who knows what would have happened by now. But eyes!
Face/Smile. I don’t know why but even if a woman has THE BEST BODY IN THE WORLD, if the face isn’t attractive, I can’t get behind it. Yeah, many men I’ve known joke “Just put a bag on it, lol, bro, douche” but… uh,… fuck you. Face and Eyes are the life of a person. Bodies change, bodies can be sliced up/amputated/crippled/etc. The face and the eyes? That’s where you find the person… their expressions, their feelings, their emotions. So… eyes, face, smile.
Then legs. I can’t over state this. Like… I was walking out of the hotel last night and someone was sitting on a park bench in nylons and I could see the tops of those nylons and I’ve been thinking about that since then. Just… legs man in a big way.
Breasts don’t mean as much to me. Prefer well shaped, attractive to “huge bazooms” but I’ve often stated it thusly:

Breasts on a woman are like rims on a car. If the car looks terrible, a good set of rims may grab positive attention… but it doesn’t really significantly impact the value of the car. If the car looks amazing, a good set of rims is a bonus but it really doesn’t make or break the car. If the car is mediocre, then a good set of rims may be enough to push the car into “amazing”. And yes, that is objectifying but that is who I see the “breast size” argument… and if you’re already debating the value of “large breasts”, aren’t you already objectifying?