Friends Before Relationships in Random Public Stuffs

I finally perused my Fakebook again and found a couple of highly controversial posts. When I say that, I don’t mean the bullshit politics or headliners in media.

I mean those questions that no one really thinks about until something is posted about it.

The one that caught my eye was the statement that someone absolutely cannot be friends with someone of the opposite sex. I noticed a couple trends, which didn’t surprise me. The first being females who agree and say shit like, ”My man knows better than to talk to another woman” and other crap along those lines. Males, on the other hand, talked about the female friends they had and it was not a huge deal.

I laughed.

My best friend of 28 years is a man. We met when I was 10 at a co-ed softball/baseball tournament at a huge baseball complex.

We are close, and many people think we are married or in a relationship. I am not sure how people think that because we don’t hold hands or anything like that.

He took me to prenatals and took the role of my youngest son’s father.

So I had to laugh when I read the comments from various females who say their men are not allowed to talk to othet women.

My best friend and I have dropped several potential partners because of that fucking stupid ultimatum: ”Its your friend or me!”

No hesitation on his part, nor mine. No guy will ever come before my best friend, and he has made it straight up clear that no female will ever be more important than me.

There have been a couple of girls who threw tantrums and cried around about they should be first and foremost and he has shut every single one of them down.

I will always be the priority. He will always be mine. My youngest may not have his DNA, but my best friend is HIS DAD. My two older children are his step-kids. They are our priorities. After that, its each other.

I tell every guy I date that he will be tossed aside if he ever tries to start shit when it comes to my best friend; dick is as common as a car in a city.

I will not hesitate to put a bitch down if she tries to hurt my best friend after he tells her I am always going to come first.

Some people are just genuinely friends. It speaks more about a person if they have to brag about their partner being on lockdown. It doesn’t surprise me when they cry around about being cheated on after making those comments.

So, that was the most entertaining thing I read on my Fakebook. I am so tired of politics and other bullshit. I thought that conversation was crazy.

People are so weird.