'are you......a gay person?' um. in 2017. got it.

this is again from the 22nd:

‘ so a few yrs. ago my sister, mom & i were going to have uh. lunch w/ a former neighbor of ours and her mom. well the woman in question happens to be religious and i said to my sister ‘and i don’t know her feelings on gay people’ and my sister goes ‘are you........a gay person?’ ‘no’. well um.............not. exactly not entirely. but i have friends who are.

like wow no pressure there. ‘