In a war in I don't know....

I am in a battle with my husband. This seems never ending. I'm tired and worn. I have caught him in yet another lie. Little, but a lie none the less. He's leaving Sunday to interview for a job far away from here. If he takes the job I will not go. He is on his own. I haven't said that yet. I have told him that this will create a lot of hurt for our kids, me and my parents. We moved to where we are because of him. Our lives have always been about him. This time it has to stop. It has to. He cares only for himself. He stays at work for 12 or 13 hours and thinks we are supposed to sit here at home and do nothing. He blames me, again, for his job. He can't do that this time. I told him when he got fired back home we would go where we had to. Throw a dart, toss a coin, just get a job. He did, we went. I have no blame in this at all. I will not be bullied into moving 10 or more hours away from my parents just for a job. My kids and I are all they have. I'm not going to hurt them for his selfish ambition.