old behaviors... in General musings

So.. He called quite a bit last week, after our day together. Said he was "glad" I'd told hubby we'd met. But he has started in slightly with the wanting to piss hubby off remarks and behavior. I was a bit worried he'd call over the weekend, but he didn't. So when we had snow yesterday, and hubby had a stress test in the morning, I sent an email letting him know the hub would leave later and would probably work from home. He replied, "Cardiac stress test? Did we do that?" I said no...it was routine and he said, "They will probably find something and he will blame me." I left my phone on "silent" all day yesterday, just in case, and sure enough , he'd tried to call on his way home. I emailed that I'd missed his call and he responded, "just called to piss him off." Which annoyed me (old behavior, etc.) so I wrote back, 'Oh, so you didn't want to talk to me then?'. He answered at lunchtime with , "Who is this? :-)" Grrr.