No, thanks in 2017

A few people now have pulled to my attention that Facebook has a way to block certain dates or date ranges from your memories ‘on this day’. Something that I believe is indeed helpful to some loss moms. Hiding a period of time on Facebook does not hide it from memory…nor do I want it to! Its such a weird dichotomy. There is a lot of trauma and ptsd and heartache in this past year related to her loss. But in order to be lost, she had to exist. And there is sweetness in the way we connected during pregnancy. The way we still connect after her physical being.

So no, Facebook.
I want to remember