In Keeping With The Chill in meh...

As in me being in a chill place right now, I’m just as dedicated to writing about good stuff as I am the bad.

The Guy is actually going to be renamed New Daddy in honor of those jokers that I raised to be some real life jokers. Lol It was a conversation about TBear telling me about this guy and how I barely got his number. I texted him. So my son says I got a new daddy? We all laughed and I said man he hasn’t sent a reply. Then my daughter said Aww…no new daddy. To which we all cracked up so hard.

So we’ve been texting mainly. I took the kids to dinner and was just finishing up texting with him. I told the kids so I’ve been talking to New Daddy. Now I’m getting high fives from across the table and from daughter sitting next to me. I was like I hate y’all. Lol

Saturday I helped daughter get her phone back on. I texted New Daddy but hadn’t heard from him since Friday afternoon. Me and son went to the mall. I bought clothes for myself and for my daughter for her birthday as well as shoes for us. My sandal broke at Food Truck Friday on the 12th and I had to replace them. Also got a new pair of sneaks. They are so pretty I’m afraid to break them in. While at the mall, I ran into my dad. He is on this restricted diet because of the heart surgery and blood pressure issues and he looks really good. He is always a dapper dresser but since his belly is like half of what it was he looks good at 70.

Son ran into one of his friends and and we kind of parted ways. We then met back up at the game store. After a while I parted ways with them and went home to shower and get ready for girls night.

We went bowling and then to see Girls Trip. That movie was effin hilarious!! After the movie we headed down to see Love Jones The Band. It was the drummers birthday bash. It was great. I got home and was so wound up I could barely get to sleep.

Oh. After the movie, I turned my phone back on and got messages from New Daddy. Turns out, one of his oldest friends passed away. Us being this new nothing, I just offered my condolences and an ear should he want to talk. This morning I get a text only to find it was his daughter texting me on his behalf. She said he was okay and that he would get at me later. Okay. I bid them take care and now I’m here.

Helping son with his phone setup. Texting with daughter. Babies are coming home today. They’ve been at Bubby Jr.s grandma’s house because my daughter got a new job but the daycare hadn’t come through yet. She’s off until the 30th so they are coming home. I don’t trust him but the other grandmother shadowed. CLOSELY.

Was trying to figure out dinner ideas for a nice family meal and my daughter wanted bbq. I don’t have a grill or a back yard so mine would be in the oven. However I do know a place that delivers. That’s what we’re having.

So now that I’ve spilled all this, I’m going to read my bible, braid down my hair, then go to Family Dollar.

Be peaceful if you can.
Your sanity depends on it.

Kindest regards,
Sister