Woo-hoo!!! in Since OD is shutting down....

Alright so I’ve been cold as fuck all day so I was napping on the couch and got the call that Eric has been SERVED!!! I asked when and where and they just said in the town where he lives. It kinda bothered me because when I get an RO on some guy a few years back, they send a letter stating when and where he was served but honestly, it doesn’t even matter!!

I’m really happy about this because I finally feel like I have some control over this situation and for him threatening to kill me and sending the sex tape to my friend isn’t going to be able to continue unless he’s wanting to go to jail. I’m glad that he’s not going to be able to come within a 100 yards of me, my home, or my job because I was honestly worried about him just randomly showing up somewhere to threaten or stalk me but now he can’t.

He was really stupid threatening to kill me via text message. Maybe he’ll think twice before he threatens anyone. Now, I have to figure out how to print out those screenshots of him threatening me which I feel isn’t going to be an easy task but I have about a week to do it. I’m just so glad that he can’t have any communication with me at all and he’s gonna have to get help before he ever comes near his child or me ever again.

It’s so crazy that it took almost 2 weeks for him to get served and I honestly had just forgotten about it because i just figured that he would get away with all of his nutty shit because most people do. I bet he’s fucking fuming too. I bet he’d love to message my friend and say a bunch of hateful things but now he can’t. He’s probably too scared to. I’m happy that now he has NO FUCKING choice but to go away!

My friends ask if I think he’ll come back for the hearing and I think there’s a 50-50 chance. I don’t see him wasting what little bit of money he has on a bus ticket, being on a bus for at least 2 days to come back and then spend money on a motel room because he can’t stay at his Mom’s or his sister’s. I don’t want to be too confident about it though because life is all about expect the unexpected but I know that it will get granted because I have so much proof against him and I’m pregnant.

I’m just happy to know that he can’t reek any more havoc. His toxic behavior can’t be inflicted upon me or my child anymore, well at least for awhile. I’m hoping that he won’t be back for the hearing because then it’s automatically granted for 5 years and that’s a long time where I won’t have to worry about him.

I was more bothered about him having no remorse or feelings towards sending my friend that sex tape. Not only did he do it, but he didn’t see anything wrong with it. It’s more like he wanted us to know what he was capable of. Well, I’m sure he didn’t expect to get served with a protection order either. His crazy shit had to be put to a stop because I just couldn’t go on worrying about what more he planned to do because he’s so fucking crazy.

This is a good lesson to him for thinking he’s just untouchable and he could get away with being as crazy as he wanted thinking that I either wouldn’t do anything about it or I couldn’t. I’m glad that he’s gonna have to face the consequences for being the way he is and hopefully he’ll learn from it.

He’s been so hell bent on blaming me for everything and now, who can he blame for the RO?! He chose to threaten to kill me via Facebook message more than once and send a sex tape! No one told him to do any of that, that nut job came up with that shit all on his own!!! It’s time for him to actually start realizing that he’s fucked up. I don’t feel bad about getting the RO because his behavior was becoming scary and alarming and I was sick of worrying about him hurting me. I understand that he still could but at least now if he does anything, he’s looking at getting arrested.

Anyways, I have to start getting ready for work now. More later.