My daughters first boyfriend in I do exist
- Feb. 21, 2017, 5:31 a.m.
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My daughter is 14 years old and has her first boyfriend since 6th December (my 40th birthday). I have to say the boy is great! He is so polite and very much “in love” with her. He looks at her with loving eyes and treats her well.....but that’s where psychotic mummy is coming in :( I am so angry with myself. You ask why? Is it normal to worry about him falling out of love with her? Her heart being broken? I am stalking him on Insta. I am very ashamed of myself. Stalking him to see what he posts under other girls pictures :( It is consuming me....my every day life....all this worry. I am so angry! So worried about her. There is this girl who would like them to split up. She is interested in him. She writes through Whatsapp with him and posts nice looking pictures of herself and he reacts and posts nice comments under them. My daughter is oblivious. I am so worried about her. How can I make this stop? How I can just let things roll? How can I let go? How can I just let them be? He is great don’t get me wrong but I don’t like the comments he posts and how he is with other girls in public (hugs, play fights....) Any ideas? Any comments? Any help from you guys?
Deleted user ⋅ February 21, 2017
She's going to get her heart broke at some point in life, it's sadly inevitable. And I'm not one to put high hopes on relationship at such a young age. As hard as it is not to, don't spy on him. Even if you found he was up to no good, chances are she wouldn't believe you. I remember what I was like when my mother told me anything lol.