More definitions. in A small but passable life.

special snowflake
The Special Snowflake (Also referred to as one with the “Special Snowflake Syndrome” or “SSS”) is a person who believes they are different and unique from everyone else because of something there are or do. This thing they are or do, most commonly is something is something many many other people are doing, E.G. Genderfluid, Therian (Otherkin), etc. Special Snowflakes almost always have a superiority complex.

and,

starfish
A girl that has no talent or technique for sex. That is, she just lays there spread out dead in the water, like a starfish.

There are older terms that mean the same thing, but hey, let’s let the youngsters think they’re evolving.