from: march 2010 in Dates/Dating

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Being in a relationship.........sure, yeah that would be great. If one of my friends knows a single guy who’s interested, come talk to me.

But it’s not at the forefront of my mind. What is, is the usual.

And, I’ve learned from my past 2 relationships. From the most recent breakup [4 months ago; wow, really?] I learned that I don’t want to be with a guy who won’t give me his opinion. I.e., if we’re planning a day out, I’d ask you what you’d want to do.....possibly. [And even if I didn’t it’d be my intent]. “Oh I don’t care whatever you want”. No. If you don’t know, then simply tell me you don’t know.

My most recent ex [as soon as a breakup occurs, the person becomes a pronoun, my ex. and that’s how I refer to them] wouldn’t give me his opinion, not really.

My dad’s the same way.

Which, incidentally, is weird............it’s like, oh, I like a guy similar to my dad.

And the relationship before that, I learned I don’t want to be with someone who’s not commited. Who puts me first.

As is expected in a relationship.

If it matters, I don’t cook. So don’t expect me to be the 1950’s kindof girlfriend.

However..........I love doing things for people.

I also don’t drive.

I’m stating this so that, if it so happens that a friend knows someone............that someone knows what they’re in for.

I’m the kindof woman who needs her own space.

Jus sayin. ‘